I have three kids, yet I still feel like a total novice at parenting. I constantly feel challenged and often defeated. It's not an easy job. The responsibility of developing the little ones while also trying to develop yourself is overwhelming. How do you make them soft and empathetic while also strong and gritty? I wish I had a life tutor by my side, guiding me and helping me avoid bad decisions. In the end, the best thing we can do for our kids is not to "parent them" but to show them our loving relationships, our devotion to work, how we deal with obstacles, and how we aim for higher goals. Show them how we handle money and responsibility. We don't need to tell them what to do if we actually live by example. That's what all those smart books say, right? Sounds simple? Not to me. It's the biggest challenge. Can we afford to make mistakes? What if we can't handle emotions well, what if we just want to lie on the sofa and watch a series instead of working ...